being SINGLE?

Being single can be viewed as a bad or good thing.

The thing that makes it good or bad

is the people's view and perspective of the issue.

First and foremost, i will tell you about the advantages of being single.

1.Being single means having MORE freedom and privacy

• the singles can spend more time with friends like partying until the wee hours .(pubs or night events)

2.Being single means that you can concentrate on your career.

• most people think that without the burden of caring for another partner you can have more money to spend for themselves
• you can easily do your jobs at home without being disturbed
• can get promoted easily because you will have full concentration on your job for better performances and results.

3.it means that you do not have to be burdened

• you do not have to be distracted due to complications in the relationship like financial or miscommunication problems.
• need not to account of your whereabouts to your spouse.
• it will not add to the tremendous stress due to working.

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Now , the disadvantages of being single.

1.you will not get to feel the emotions when getting married

• you will not get the feeling of being loved by someone you like
• would feel lonely or left out (when going out with couples or seeing people dating)

2.do not have a sense of security.

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Other reasons to remain singles.

1.might have a bad impression of marriage

• because of unhappy marriage between parents
• see many friends or siblings divorcing because of complications after marriage.

2.suffered from a traumatic experiece due to unforeseen circumstances

• sexually abused or harrassed.

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My opinion about being single is...

I feel that being single is a way of expressing that you are not yet ready for marriage or a heavier sense of responsibility.I think that marriage is an important decision in life and i think that lots of thought must be put in to it before deciding.Also, i think that you should consider your partner well enough as you are going to spend your whole life with him/her.So i insist that having sufficient time and communication first before marriage is crucial, so as not to regret your actions in the future. Thus i think that being single, is a period of time to get ready and prepared for being married thorugh methods like saving money for future use and maturity of your mindset to accept the fact that it will be better to get married and being loved , than being alone .

-nicholas- xD