...BEING SINGLE...
Some people see single as being lonely. However, there are people who see them differently. Therefore I can only say that different people have different views of being single. It all depends how they actually view this situation.
For those who finds single very lonely is probably because they are always being ostracised by others and are left alone. Therefore they are tired of having to face things all alone. Everyone wants to be love and cared for and so being always the outcast definitely bring unhappiness to them.
However on the flip side, I can see that most people can be even happier than those who are attached. Many reasons support to why they can actually be so satisfied with life despite being unattached. Being single meant that you are carefree. You can do whatever you want and there will be no one that will object you from doing it. For instant, if you’re attached and your pals decided to celebrate your birthday with you. However, your boyfriend or your husband wants to spend the day out with you. You’ll have to miss out all the fun that your friend had planned for your upcoming birthday. Another case is that if you’re attached, you can hardly fork out time to go on a Sunday spree at the mall or stay out late in the night hanging around in the pub enjoying the night life with your friends. All the freedom you’ve being single will not appear beside you. So being single you have all the time in the world exploring stuffs and do what you want. If you’re single, you’ve only yourself to care for, but of course there are also your friends that you care for. You would not need to put in effort and try to accommodate to your partner and make life difficult for yourself. All you need to do is to find fun everywhere you go and no one will stop you.
Therefore it’s the different angle that you face with it. So if you want to see it as being happy, your life would definitely be filled with all the joys you want. However if you see it the pessimistically, your thinking will lead you to a very unpleasant journey in your life. So why not make your life filled with laughter as single can also bring as much joy as compared to being attached.
Eryn... =D
For those who finds single very lonely is probably because they are always being ostracised by others and are left alone. Therefore they are tired of having to face things all alone. Everyone wants to be love and cared for and so being always the outcast definitely bring unhappiness to them.
However on the flip side, I can see that most people can be even happier than those who are attached. Many reasons support to why they can actually be so satisfied with life despite being unattached. Being single meant that you are carefree. You can do whatever you want and there will be no one that will object you from doing it. For instant, if you’re attached and your pals decided to celebrate your birthday with you. However, your boyfriend or your husband wants to spend the day out with you. You’ll have to miss out all the fun that your friend had planned for your upcoming birthday. Another case is that if you’re attached, you can hardly fork out time to go on a Sunday spree at the mall or stay out late in the night hanging around in the pub enjoying the night life with your friends. All the freedom you’ve being single will not appear beside you. So being single you have all the time in the world exploring stuffs and do what you want. If you’re single, you’ve only yourself to care for, but of course there are also your friends that you care for. You would not need to put in effort and try to accommodate to your partner and make life difficult for yourself. All you need to do is to find fun everywhere you go and no one will stop you.
Therefore it’s the different angle that you face with it. So if you want to see it as being happy, your life would definitely be filled with all the joys you want. However if you see it the pessimistically, your thinking will lead you to a very unpleasant journey in your life. So why not make your life filled with laughter as single can also bring as much joy as compared to being attached.
Eryn... =D
